Let's do it, let's fall in love.

I should be finishing my Syracuse application right now, but once again, SoulPancake has gotten the best of me. One recent entry bears the question: "Are missed connections coincidences or fate?" We've all seen the missed connections section of Craigslist or Downelink. Some of us may have even posted on them. And though many would hate to admit it, we've all had missed connections. So what are they? 


You're in line at Starbucks, the guy behind you is talking to his friend about things you totally agree with, seems like you two would totally get along. While waiting for your drinks, you two exchange nervous glances and smiles as you frivolously pretend you're text messaging. Your drinks are ready, you reach for them at the same time, he hands you a sleeve. Eye contact. Electricity. Heat. And then you walk your separate ways. Is this the universe's way of literally putting something into your lap? Or just a way of reminding you there is still hope out there? Is it serendipity or did it just so happen you two were there at the same time? Would he have had the same experience with someone else in your exact spot?


I've definitely had my share of missed connections. And some of them I've thought about for even days after. But, when it comes down to it, I don't think it's healthy to worry about missed connections. We already have so much to deal with, that concerning ourselves with could have beens and what ifs is suicide. If you don't like having unanswered questions, then ensure that your life won't encounter missed connections; if you find yourself in a situation like this, GO FOR IT! So much easier said than done, I know. I see missed connections as a fun game life plays. It boosts confidence, it's a nice highlight of any day. But if it was fate, it wouldn't be a missed connection, do you know what I mean? If you're feeling lucky and want to make it more than a missed connection, chances are your instincts are right and fate is playing a role. I don't know, just me. =D